You cannot just meet a lady and stick you big cock in a ladies behind. You have to get her warmed up first. Kisses on her neck, sucking, licking and nibbling her nipples. Kiss and lick the inside of her thighs. Lick, kiss and suck her kitty lips and clitoris. Then you can lick her bumhole and then insert your tongue into it. You can then replace your tongue with your cock. Happy days.